God’s Answer to Concupiscence

On earth, humans have a lot of things against them. One of those is concupiscence. This is a long, hard-to-say word that stands for the problem humanity developed as a result of the first sin, original sin. After Adam and Eve sinned against God (Gen 3:1-8), they were now afflicted with the tendency to sin (CCC 405). No matter how hard they tried, they would always struggle with sin. Their relationship with God would be weak and always under threat. Not only would this affect Adam and Eve, their children, grandchildren, and so on would have to deal with it.

The Catholic Church named this condition concupiscence. Since all humans descended from Adam and Eve, we all have to live with this condition (CCC 407). This condition is what causes our inner temptations to sin. Satan can also tempt us, but with concupiscence we can be our own worst enemy. This is St. Paul referred to when he wrote about doing what he hated (Rom 7:19). No matter how good a person is their internal sinful desires will eventually get the best of them.

This can be a very sad thing to learn about. How can we possibly do good when our own bodies are against us? It’s all thanks to God. In his goodness he provides a counteracting force to oppose concupiscence. This force for good is grace (CCC 420). Where concupiscence constantly urges people to sin, God’s grace, through the Holy Spirit, constantly urges people to do good. Within each of us, good and evil are constantly battling (CCC 409).

At the same time, God still honors people’s free will. Just as our temptations to sin can never force us to sin, God’s grace will never force us to do good (CCC 155). We always have the choice. God’s grace is simply a positive influence. It’s plants in the mind a positive thought to do good and gives a taste of the warm, fuzzy feeling that will be felt after taking that good action. Even though God’s grace will never force us to do anything, sometimes that constant urging to do good is just enough.

I remember reading about a priest who for years ignored the grace of God calling him to join the priesthood. He ignored the call, constantly refusing to accept it, but eventually, he just couldn’t stand the constant urging from God. God never forced this man to become a priest, but he definitely made it hard to ignore the idea. Ultimately, God knows what is best for each of us. When he persistently calls us to do something, we should listen. It’s for our own good. That doesn’t mean it will be painless, but it the long run, we will be better off doing whatever it is God wants from us.

May God bless you with his abundant grace,
Jared

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The Challenge of Tough Times

As Catholics, we live our lives doing our best to follow the laws God and the Church have given us (CCC 2342). This is a hard enough challenge in itself, but it’s even harder when times are tough. It could be the death of a loved one, a good job lost, or a devastating injury. Whatever the case may be, these tough times shatter the peace in our lives. We may have felt like we were finally getting somewhere with holiness, but then some big obstacle appears that throws out all we have learned. We are like a baby learning how to walk again. These are the times when God sees what we’re made of (CCC 164, 272).

In most cases, there is no running away or ignoring tough times. No matter how much we resist, they will change us. The choice we have is how they will change us: in a negative way or a positive way. In the negative outcome, a person asks “Why me?” and becomes angry. When they eventually get through the tough time they remain bitter at what happened, complaining to everyone they come across about how the world wronged them. In other cases, sadness takes hold and when they get through that period, they end up depressed, forever scarred by the experience. I’m sure everyone has had an experience where you ended up angry or depressed, but that’s not how God wants us to be feeling.

In the positive outcome, the person realizes they don’t know everything, the world is more complex than they initially thought. They are not God. They thought they were nearing perfection in holiness, but they are actually still infants compared to God and still need him very much. With this new perspective on life, they gain new appreciation for all their blessings. Their life might not be going the way they wanted, but at least it still has a few good things. In doing this, they are able to be grateful to God even in the tough times.

In one outcome, the person loses ground in their battle for holiness. In the other outcome, the person ends up stronger and happier than where they started, gaining more holiness along the way. It can be very tempting to choose the negative path because that’s always the thought whenever something goes wrong. Maybe we want to blame someone for the bad things happening. Other times, we might want other people to feel our pain by throwing anger everywhere we go. God has told us how to act throughout life though.

The one commandment from which all others come from is to love (CCC 1823). Half of love is giving, but the other half is receiving. That means when times are tough, lean on God, your friends, and your family. Continue doing your best to serve others, but this is the time to reach out and ask for help in return for all the sacrifices you have made for your loved ones. Not everyone will understand what you are going through, but God works in mysterious ways. Sometimes without understanding they may help exactly the way you needed, a loving act inspired by the grace of God.

Besides remaining positive during tough times, the other big challenge is remaining holy. When life is tough, a person might feel so bad, they just want some quick relief. The problem is this can lead to bad decisions. In their struggle with suffering they might start up an old alcohol habit again or take out their suffering on friends. These things might feel better in the short term but leave deep regret in the long run. Then even when the tough times are over, they have lost all the progress they made against the alcohol or worse, permanently lost a good friend. Even worse, they could trigger another tough time. Maybe the alcohol habit becomes an addiction and now a job is lost, a continuing cycle of negative events. We are most susceptible during the tough times, so this is when we must be extra careful about everything we do.

Overall, the challenge of tough times is turning a potentially bad period in our life into a very good period. If we can do this, we are well on our way to sainthood. The goal of all Catholics is to go to heaven (the beatific vision, CCC 163), which requires becoming a saint. Tough times can be some of the greatest growth periods in our life, but we have to work extra hard. Otherwise, we will be worse off than where we started. I encourage you to slow down during tough times, so you have time to make good decisions before every action. There is no rushing holiness. Be patient every day, doing your best in every moment. Look at tough times in this positive way: the path to sainthood, through perfection in holiness.

May God bless you with his abundant grace,
Jared